Saturday, April 28, 2007

thirty-six on 4/29, y'all

At my birthday dinner on Friday with family and closest SF friends, one dear friend asked me:

"...what does 36 look like for [Gina]?" - to which I responded:

"athletic [in a clean boxy space]. it starts off fat, but ends skinny. single. outdoors. it starts off slutty, but ends in dating. the mouse movement is gaining momentum. learning. growing. hopeful."

Happy Birthday to me, bitches!

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5 Simple Rules to a Successful Gay Life


1. Get a man who helps around the house, cooks and cleans up.

2. Get a man who can make you smile and laugh.

3. Get a man who is faithful and who does not lie to you.

4. Get a man who is a good lover and likes to be with you.

5. It is very important that these four men do not know each other.

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Tuesday, April 24, 2007

739

A treo shot from Giants Stadium on Saturday with Big Sir - my first SF game, SWEET seats thanks to a friend at work... and I got to see Bonds crack his 739th career homer for the Giants' only score. They beat the Diamondbacks 1-0.

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Monday, April 16, 2007

fasten your seatbelts, bitches...


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it ain't easy...

I've been turned on to a great song... so now I'm sharing it with you:

Sideways - by Citizen Cope:
You know it ain't easy
For these thoughts here to leave me
There's no words to describe it
In French or in English
Well, diamonds they fade
And flowers they bloom
And I'm telling you

These feelings won't go away
They've been knockin' me sideways
They've been knockin' me out lately
Whenever you come around me

These feelings won't go away
They've been knockin' me sideways
I keep thinking in a moment that
Time will take them away
But these feelings won't go away

I was discussing the meaning of the song and my perception with "someone" the other night. He was telling me he feels like it is a somber, not-so-happy song. I think the music, the tone, the quality of this dude's voice - sure, not super happy/fun like an up-tempo Kylie Minogue frothy hit. But I also think it is not necessarily melancholy.

Listen to it. MANY times. God knows I have. I LOVE this shit. But I feel like its merely someone describing how he can't get away from a strong feeling about someone. He can't shake it. His feelings are throwing him for a loop.

But is that necessarily a bad thing?

I don't think so. I'm trying to feel my feelings instead of manage them in my brain. Its fucking scary. Terrifying actually. But the exhiliration and just plain old fun I'm experiencing lately is pretty awesome.

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height and saturation

I decided I needed some beauty (other than me, of course) at my desk. So at lunch, I tooled out with my work girlfriend Alejandra and we bought flowers.



They're real pretty:




I only hope their beauty comforts when when I get yelled at by my manager. Because in prepping my flowers for their big debut, I spilled about two-cups worth of water right on top of my laptop. Thankfully, they have already performed a shell-swap and all is good with the world for Gina's harddrive.

HOWEVER, when IT sends the water-logged shell out, I have to fess up to the water spill, with repair costs of roughly $600-800 hitting my manager's budget. Booooooooooo!

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Friday, April 13, 2007

only 4.99!



Wednesday, April 11, 2007

Unless you want us playing in the nude...

if you live in SF and are queer or queer-friendly, come out and help us make some paper:



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Thursday, April 05, 2007

Defend SOMA

I normally don't post items like this, but if you are a new reader and live in SF - please read and take action if you want to help.

THANKS!

Forwarded from Matt Consola:

Hello All:

For those not aware of what has been going on in the South of Market, Jim Meko, who holds a seat on the city’s Entertainment Commission and is chair of the SoMa Leadership Council, has been trying to rid SoMa of The Eagle & The Hole in The Wall (who is currently owned by the same two people), The Lone Star, as well as prevent newer events like The Hairrison Street Fair. He is currently winning his battle because this issue has been getting little press until yesterday’s article in The SF Bay Times. Below is a great article from The SF Bay Times' Don Baird. I urge you all to voice your opinions loudly and quickly, whether in person or in an e-mail. The hearing is Thursday May 10th. If we stay quite, a huge part of our community, our history and our legacy will be lost forever. Please post to your blogs, e-mail your friends and mobilize before it's too late.

If you would like to voice your opinion or concern on this matter letters can be sent to: President Dwight Alexander, San Francisco Planning Department, 1600 Mission St. Fifth Floor, San Francisco, CA 94103

Letters should be short and to the point, and I urge you to send them soon. The hearing on this matter is on May 10, beginning at 1:30 pm in Room 400 at City Hall.
ThanksMatt Consola


Are We Losing The Eagle and The Hole in the Wall?
By Don Baird

I’m a former resident of South of Market, where I resided upstairs from a popular bar on Folsom Street for 10 years. Though I moved from the neighborhood about five years ago, I still work in SOMA. For over 12 years I’ve worked at two popular bars that I consider to be fine establishments run by exemplary employers who have enriched the vitality, community and fun of a neighborhood known for its vibrant active gay nightlife for decades. In the mid ‘90s, when the AIDS epidemic had taken its toll on numerous gay businesses and the nightlife was dwindling in the South of Market area, a new bar appeared and rapidly rose to popularity, bringing new life to the neighborhood with a simple festive attitude, and the re-introduction of rock and roll music as the featured style of music in a gay bar. That bar was The Hole in the Wall Saloon, and it unquestionably brought the whole South of Market bar scene back to life, achieving a world renowned reputation as the San Francisco gay bar to go to and a bar truly unlike any other anywhere. As an employee, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been told this over the years.

When the owners of the Hole in the Wall Saloon later acquired The San Francisco Eagle, they brought new life to that historic meeting place for our extended gay and leather communities as well, maintaining its regular Sunday tradition of money-raising benefits for various community groups. And during a time when artists and musicians were being forced out of this city by high rents on both rehearsal spaces and homes, and as live music venues in San Francisco began to fold, the Eagle started presenting live music on Thursday nights, rapidly becoming a sanctuary for local and touring bands. This lent some hope and positive energy to a daunted scene, and Thursday nights continue to create a friendly space where many bands love to play.
I feel like I’ve said all of this before about these bars, but I’m saying it now to lend a bit of background to a current situation faced by the Hole in the Wall. Owners John Gardiner and Joe Banks recently bought a property on Folsom street with plans of relocating the Hole in the Wall. The bar’s current location is a rented space in a structurally problematic building, so they want to move the business to a new space which they own and can design and plan from the floor up to suit the business they created. This process requires attaining construction permits, zoning approval, proper business and liquor licensing and specific permits for operation, all of which the owners have methodically and legally set about doing.

As soon as these processes were set into motion, a certain SoMa resident and business owner who holds a seat on the city’s Entertainment Commission and is chair of the SoMa Leadership Council, seems obsessively bent on squelching every effort of this relocation and anything having to do with the Eagle and the Hole in the Wall. His name is Jim Meko, and he has launched an all-out campaign against both establishments, nit-picking through the history of both bars for the slightest infractions in the past, inventing permit violations that had never appeared or occurred to the business owners or authorities, organizing other neighborhood residents to parrot his complaints and submit requests for discretionary reviews and motions to reject the transference of licenses for the relocation, not to mention personally berating John Gardiner and Joe Banks, characterizing them as “bad bar owners” and urging attendees at a neighborhood meeting, “Do not trust these guys!”

Speaking as one of 21 current employees of one or both bars, I would like to point out that these “untrustworthy and bad bar owners” have without fail provided a safe, sane and systematic place of employment for over a decade for many of us. They have also provided all of us employees as well as a few of their partners with full health insurance coverage, paid vacation time, and an annual employee retreat. This sense of allegiance has prevailed since the opening of the Hole in the Wall and has built a place of employment that goes well beyond just that. As far as bars go, you would be hard-pressed to find another one that treats its staff as well or a staff as committed and loyal. I think these simple facts speak volumes on the characters of Mr. Gardiner and Mr. Banks, and their integrity as bar owners and businessmen.
The statements made by Jim Meko resemble the reaction of someone throwing a temper tantrum in the face of things not quite going his way, like a child who isn’t going to let anyone else have fun unless it is done his way. These statements are also slanderous, untrue, and indicate that there are probably many more off-the-handle, uncalled-for falsehoods where that came from. It really makes one wonder just where all of this negativity and obsession are truly coming from.

But it doesn’t stop there. This man seems to want to stanch and harass any sense of fun, community, history or freedom to convene in the entire South of Market area, especially if it has anything to do with the Eagle or the Hole in the Wall. For someone who has resided in SoMa since 1977, when Folsom was known as “the miracle mile,” why has Jim Meko endeavored to continue the down-sizing of that miracle mile into less than a block of gay businesses, primarily the ones which people historically choose to go to have fun and enjoy themselves?

As a person who holds a seat on the entertainment commission, what portion of this city’s population is this man representing in his obvious and merciless attacks on these businesses? He certainly doesn’t have the people who work there in mind at all, the ones who would soon be without jobs. This clearly doesn’t concern him. Nor does he consider the numerous organizations that have relied on the Eagle as a meeting place to stage benefits for fundraising, and this is a very long list representing several facets of the community. Then there is the gay community who enjoy going out to bars, and you can’t deny their existence and history, but it seems one man is actively trying to do so.

His influence doesn’t simply stop with SoMa. He has tried to curtail similar businesses in several San Francisco neighborhoods from North Beach to the Castro, and has actively battled with the organizers of The Hairrison Street Fair, the newest annual SoMa-based event drawing a large international Bear subculture to the area, causing them to relocate a few blocks down when he wasn't able to get the event cancelled completely. [He has also currently battles with the owners of The Lone Star, Castro St Fair, My Place and other night life establishments and fairs that require gaining licenses on a yearly basis.] Is this the city that San Francisco shall become, void of any sense of nighttime revelry, drinking and the enjoyment of music? That’s clearly the intention of Jim Meko, that and perhaps some local political position that will ensure his power to more effectively continue destroying the nightlife culture, and dare I say the gay culture and community of this city. Who would have ever thought a gay man would want to do that to San Francisco? Are we our own worst enemy?

Though the battle at hand currently involves the relocation of the Hole in the Wall, you can tell by this individual’s selfish blind determination that he’s dead set on doing anything to interrupt and harass the operation of any endeavor involving Gardiner and Banks. In doing so he is attacking one of the qualities that has made San Francisco a desirable destination for gay people everywhere for decades, and definitely one that keeps many residents here and many visitors returning. The demise of the Hole in the Wall would indicate a change in San Francisco that I would have never anticipated, and the beginning of the end of a fine and spirited nightlife unlike any other. I don’t think our city is willing to say goodbye to this institution or this ideal.

If you would like to voice your opinion or concern on this matter letters can be sent to: President Dwight Alexander, San Francisco Planning Department, 1600 Mission St. Fifth Floor, San Francisco, CA 94103

Letters should be short and to the point, and I urge you to send them soon. The hearing on this matter is on May 10, beginning at 1:30 pm in Room 400 at City Hall.


Wednesday, April 04, 2007

Breaking up on re-entry

Oh what a cruel way to come back to work... SanJo right on the heels of a fab moviestar weekend in PS and then fantastic #4 last nite.


Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Seriously

This was in the display window at a jewelry store on the main drag in P.S. So is it more gay that they have a Barbie bust? Or more gay that they are showcasing a tiara? Either way, you gotta love any town that is THIS gay!


Monday, April 02, 2007

don quixote

I don't know why but I am fascinated by these new-fangled windmills:






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Sunday, April 01, 2007

when the sun does down...

...you come back from Joshua Tree (pics to come later, as they are on another camera - and I should warn you - our internet research led us astray... we were limited on time and unable to motor through the entire park. The frickin' thing is HUGE - and it will require another trip to get pics of actual Joshua trees. I can't really talk about it. I'm a little bummed.). Then you go eat a yummy Austrian inspired meal for birthday celebration. Then you come back to your movie-star digs and do a hot tub soak followed by a cold plunge into the pool. You then alternate the hot cold sensation, all the while enjoying the stars above and the luxurious firepit next to the pool/tub:





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luxury

is this shower. two sides and an overhead rain head:


not sure if the water reads in the photo - but here it is in action:


I think showering with an open door and seeing the gorgeous CA sun-filled sky has me beginning to understand outdoors nudism...

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form


I took these because I was feeling the circularity (that's not even a word, but go with it) of the shots:




These I was feeling the angles:


And these I was digging the combination of right angles and circularity (there, I've used it twice now so it is a real word):

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